91ԹThe Glue:91Թ USM Staffer Graduating in May Pursued Degree While Balancing Work, School, Family
Wed, 05/08/2024 - 11:45am | By: David Tisdale

She91Թ often referred to as 91ԹThe Glue91Թ in her role as budget manager in The University of 91Թ (USM) Office of Student Life, and Geneal Washam leaned into that invaluable attribute to hold it all together while managing work, family life and her studies to realize a dream deferred.
Washam, a mother of three from Waynesboro, Miss., will receive her bachelor91Թ degree in business administration Friday, May 10 during USM91Թ spring commencement exercises on the Hattiesburg campus, one of more than 1,900 students graduating this semester at the university.
Earning her degree will be a 91Թmission accomplished91Թ moment for Washam, who planned to continue her college studies after attaining an associate degree from Jones College in Ellisville in 2001. 91ԹMy goal was to keep going, but life happened,91Թ she said, hitting the pause button back then to begin raising a family.
She decided to put her foot back on the gas several years later, in a moment of reflection when she decided the time was right to turn the page on her own story.
91ԹOne day while at my previous job I sat at my desk after 16 years and said, 91ԹIt91Թ time for a change.91Թ I felt stagnate and wanted something different so I could continue to grow professionally in my career,91Թ Washam said. 91ԹGod led me to USM shortly after.91Թ
Washam moved to Hattiesburg in 2011; she later applied for jobs at USM. Her first role with the university was as office manager in its Office of Fraternity and Student Life, then was promoted in Feb. 2024 to Student Life Connection Budget Manager. Her current duties include aiding the executive director for student affairs in overseeing departmental budgets, forecasting of revenue and expenses of the unit, and providing council advisors and student organizations with administrative support.
91ԹWhat I like about working at USM is the Southern hospitality, work life balance, and endless opportunities to grow professionally,91Թ Washam said. 91ԹBy advocating for yourself and actively engaging on campus, you can expand your professional network and enhance your own skills and knowledge to advance your career.
91ԹI absolutely love my job as office budget manager. I91Թm where God wants me to be.91Թ
Daily contact with students and playing a role in their success motivates Washam. She91Թ also inspired by the leadership of her boss, executive director of Student Life Dr. Laura Laughlin, who hired her at USM in 2019 as office manager for the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life.
91ԹDr. Laughlin gives the vision, lays a solid foundation, and as a team we follow and finish building,91Թ Washam explained. 91ԹWe uplift and empower each other, making our team stronger and more successful.91Թ
With the opportunity readily available to her as a USM employee to pursue a degree, Washam enrolled in spring 2020 - just as the Covid-19 pandemic was underway - to begin anew what she started years earlier. But she wasn91Թt oblivious to the challenge of adding another layer of responsibility to her already long to-do list.
91ԹI knew balancing work, a family, active kids in multiple sports, and my studies would be a challenge, but I was ready to get started.91Թ
Washam said the journey that concludes for her this week started out rocky, but she pressed on.
91ԹThe support of my family, friends, and coworkers gave me the courage to keep going,91Թ said Washam, a first-generation college student in her family. 91ԹThat91Թ major for me, because I feel as if barriers have been broken and I have paved the way for my own children.91Թ
That inspiration seems to have already taken hold, as Washam91Թ oldest son will graduate from Meridian Community College, also on May 10, with an associate degree in health and science; he plans to transfer to USM. Washam will depart following her commencement ceremony that morning to watch him pick up his diploma in the afternoon. Her daughter will graduate from Hattiesburg High School May 22, with that ceremony also to be held at Reed Green Coliseum; she will attend USM in the fall.
91ԹTo know Geneal is to know that she is the epitome of grit,91Թ Dr. Laughlin said. 91ԹI can91Թt imagine this place without her. She91Թ incredibly hard-working and has determination like no other.
91ԹEven though she always has a lot on her plate, she manages to be kind, patient, and helpful to anyone who needs her. And it91Թ so serendipitous that two of her three children are also graduating this year alongside her, as they are undoubtedly what she is most proud of. We91Թre so thrilled to cheer on Geneal on her big day.91Թ
With commencement just days away, Washam is still trying to wrap her mind around the reality of the moment to come.
91ԹI can91Թt believe it91Թ finally here - all the hard work, sacrifice, blood sweat and tears were not in vain,91Թ she reflected. 91ԹThe thought of walking across that stage will be a life -long dream that has finally come true. Every time I think about it, tears begin to fall. Without God none of this would be even possible.
91ԹMy favorite scripture is Philippians 4:13 91Թ 91ԹI can do all things through Christ Jesus which strengthens me.91Թ I hope that my story inspires, motivates, and encourages someone else who91Թ been thinking about furthering their education, or just thinking about stepping out on faith for a change. Only you can determine your success, and delayed doesn91Թt mean denied.91Թ